After the morning session on Saturday, we headed over to my aunt and uncle's chapel to participate in a Celebration of Life. I had been asked to accompany my aunt and two of my cousins as they sang The Lord is My Shepherd. We got there early to practice a few times. After we finished practicing, there was still a bit of time before people were to arrive, so Cadi started playing the piano and Rori got on the mic and began singing. Eventually, they started to coordinate and next thing we knew, Cadi was accompanying Rori as she sang I am a Child of God. It was so sweet and everyone who was there helping to get ready LOVED it! Matthew loved it, too, and that was what clinched it for me (since this was for his mom's service). Rori really wanted to sing in the program, so when it was time for the congregation to share their thoughts and memories of Lila, Rori and I went up so she could sing her song. (Cadi didn't want to do it in front of everyone, so I filled in.) I set her up with the mic and sat down next to her at the piano and she sang in front of everyone, all by herself! And she did a really, really good job! I don't know how many other people loved it, but I know my family did, and that's what mattered the most to me. :)
We love the Hills... and they are a little crazy. It's hard to ever get a picture without someone acting goofy!
It was so wonderful to be a part of this very special time, to remember and celebrate such a sweet and wonderful lady.
The Celebration of life was fun! There were lots of memories shared and several musical talents shared, most of whom were Lila's grandchildren; she had always been so proud of how musical and talented her grandchildren were.
After the Celebration of Life, the girls and I went back to the Hills while Ryan wen to Priesthood Session. We ended up hanging out the rest of the night. We goofed off, ate some of the leftover food from the service, and just spent time together. My cousin Chelsie trimmed up the girls' hair since they both needed it badly and they both look so much better now! :) Thanks, Chels!
There was a lot of leftover Martinelli's, so we toasted to Lila a few more times. In honor of the "toasting", Chad made toast. lol
On Sunday morning, the girls and I headed into the Gorge to help say good-bye to Lila. Ryan was going to join us but ended up getting caught up all day with work. He was so disappointed! The girls and I had a really nice time with the family though and I'm so glad that we still went, even without Ryan.
We began in the Gorge at HorseTail Falls, one of Lila's favorite places.
(My camera lens was pretty wet by the time we took the group picture! lol But it still turned out okay.)
Next we needed to head back in the opposite direction, all the way to the coast. But first, we stopped at Multnomah Falls to take a restroom break before the long drive.
We caravaned along on our way to Cannon Beach, when all of a sudden the lead car pulled over at this little restaurant. MaryJane remembered that Lila always stopped to get a milkshake there on her way to the beach, and she really wanted everyone to do that, too. So, we piled into a side serving room and had milkshakes. Rori and I shared a blackberry shake that was berry delicious. ;)
Finally, we arrived in Cannon Beach and met up with more family. We walked along the beach to Haystack Rock and Matthew took her ashes into the waves. His sister, Jill, brought white roses and threw them into the waves as well. Of course, the waves just pushed them back on shore at first, so we sprinkled more ashes on the roses and waited for the waves to come get them. After a few minutes, Jill decided that Lila wouldn't have waited, so neither should we. She picked up the roses, walked into the water, and placed them into the ocean. We watched as they were finally carried off, to her final resting place.
The whole weekend was a special experience. Lila was a wonderful lady and we were fortunate to have been able to become part of her "adopted" family in her final years.
Good-bye Grandma Lila! God be with you til we meet again. :)












