Monday, November 28, 2016

#LIGHTtheWORLD

Tonight, for FHE, we will be discussing and preparing for the #LIGHTtheWORLD initiative, which begins December 1st.


We will begin by watching this video:


and reading Matthew 5:16:
"Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven."

We'll discuss the video and scripture, and think of ways that we can serve others. 

I plan to use these FREE tools to help us with ideas and to record what we are doing as the month goes along:
The important part isn't so much what happens tonight, but what will happen each day in December as we lead up to Christmas.  I'm excited to celebrate this season by serving others and I know it will bring a greater spirit into all of our festivities.


Tuesday, July 19, 2016

Honor Thy Parents

We have still been having FHE, though not always with a ponderizing scripture.  This week, our FHE took place at a ward member's house with missionaries and a newly baptized ward member.  It was fun!

Last week, our FHE was a ponderizing scripture, Exodus 20:12:

Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the Lord thy God giveth thee.

I always think that parents teaching this scripture to their kids is self-satisfying. lol  And the fact that we discussed this and made it our focus last week, THE DAY BEFORE MY BIRTHDAY, was extra timely. lol  And let me tell you, my kids did a fantastic job of spoiling me and making me feel not just loved but truly honored. :)

I don't have a lesson plan to share because I did not print one up and we didn't follow any specific outline.  We simply discussed the commandment and what it means.  Why was it given?  Why is it important? 

I've been a bit non-bloggy lately.  I will try to do better.  No promises, I'm enjoying our lazy summer. ;)

Monday, May 2, 2016

Remember the Sabbath Day, to keep it holy.


The children of Israel received manna from heaven to eat while they lived in the wilderness on their journey to the promised land. Manna was a special food that the Lord prepared for them to eat. Each morning they woke up and found manna on the ground, ready for them to gather. Usually, they had to gather and eat the manna on the day it fell or it became wormy and smelly. The day before the Sabbath, twice as much manna fell, and the Lord told the children of Israel to gather enough for two days. On the Sabbath day they did not receive any manna, but the manna they gathered the day before did not go bad. The Lord preserved it for His people (see Ex. 16:16–24).


Why do you think the Lord sent twice as much manna on Saturday and none on Sunday?

What if the people had not gathered what they would need for Sunday on Saturday?

How is it that manna that was left over on other days was gross, but the left overs from Saturday were not?



Like the Israelites, our families will be guided and blessed when we keep the Sabbath day holy. President Gordon B. Hinckley teaches: “Gather your family about you, teach them the gospel, enjoy yourselves together on the Sabbath Day, come to your meetings, participate. You will know that the principle of the Sabbath is a true principle which brings with it great blessings” (Teachings of Gordon B. Hinckley [1997], 559).



Has our family been blessed because of keeping the Sabbath Day holy?  How?

Have you been blessed personally for keeping the Sabbath Day holy? 



"There is a power in keeping the Sabbath day holy-power to help others as well as ourselves. If we would have God's blessings and protection as individuals, as families, as communities, and as nations, we must keep His Sabbath day holy… I further testify that when we eventually see things through the proper perspective of eternal truth, we will be amazed at how much we were blessed in important-though often unperceived ways through keeping the Sabbath holy." -John H. Groberg



The scripture we will be ponderizing this week is Exodus 20:8-11:

Remember the sabbath day, to keep it holy.

Six days shalt thou labour, and do all thy work:

But the seventh day is the sabbath of the Lord thy God: in it thou shalt not do any work, thou, nor thy son, nor thy daughter, thy manservant, nor thy maidservant, nor thy cattle, nor thy stranger that is within thy gates:

For in six days the Lord made heaven and earth, the sea, and all that in them is, and rested the seventh day: wherefore the Lord blessed the sabbath day, and hallowed it.

Yesterday, we went the the Hill’s for dinner. Why?  (It was our cousin, Taylor’s birthday.)  We had steak, Mary Jane’s potato salad, and fruit pizza.  Why?  Because those are his favorite foods and it was his special day.

Each of us has a special day.  On your day, I make what you want for dinner.  We celebrate the way you want – a party, having friends over, doing something special. 

Does Heavenly Father have a special day?  Of course.  What do we call it?  The Sabbath.  So, if the Sabbath is His day, how should we treat it?  What should we be doing on that day?



What are your thoughts about the following quotes:

"If we don't keep the Sabbath day holy, he may still be our God, but we may not be his people." -Milton R. Hunter

"Observance of the Sabbath is an indication of the depth of our conversion." -Mark E. Peterson

"No person can disregard the Lord's day without suffering serious spiritual consequences." John Wells



Bear testimony of the importance of the Sabbath Day.  Invite family members to share their testimonies.

Monday, April 11, 2016

No Other Gods

We are still here and we have been having our FHE and "ponderizing" different scriptures, I have just been really busy and haven't blogged!  And most of our lessons have been pretty informal, just discussing the scripture.  Today's will be much the same.

Over the next 6 weeks, we are going to be studying the 10 commandments.  I've combined some weeks that I felt were similar or didn't require a full lesson. (I really hope my kids don't need a full lesson on "Thou shalt not kill." lol)

This week, we start with the first two, found in Exodus 20:3-6.
Thou shalt have no other gods before me.
Thou shalt not make unto thee any graven image, or any likeness of any thing that is in heaven above, or that is in the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth:
Thou shalt not bow down thyself to them, nor serve them: for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God, visiting the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generation of them that hate me;
And shewing mercy unto thousands of them that love me, and keep my commandments.

I am not planning out a full lesson, but some questions I intend to ask, to encourage a discussion, are:

  • What are some "other gods" that we might put before Heavenly Father at times?
  • How can we be sure that we are not doing that?
  • I find it interesting that the commandment does not say "Thou shalt have no other gods."  It says "no other gods before me".  What are your thoughts?
  • What are "graven images"?  
  • What does Heavenly Father mean when he says, "for I the Lord thy God am a jealous God"?
  • How might God "visit the iniquity of the fathers upon the children unto the third and fourth generations f them that hate me"?  Do we see this happening?
  • How does God show mercy unto those that love Him and keep His commandments?
We will close with testimonies and refreshments. :)

Monday, March 21, 2016

An Easter FHE

Preparation: 
  • Print the last two pages of handouts from this link for each person in your family.
  • Make sure everyone has a copy of the Bible and a pen or pencil.
  • Have the video "His Sacred Name" ready to play for the family (less than 3 minutes)

FHE LESSON:

What is coming up this weekend? (Easter!)

Why do we celebrate Easter? (Christ atoned for our sins and died for us, then rose on the 3rd day, so we can repent and live with Him and Heavenly Father again after this life.)

Have everyone get out their scriptures and give them the worksheet to look up the scriptures listed to learn more about Christ's suffering.

Watch the video “His Sacred Name” on lds.org and give each person the handout to color.

Share the scripture we are “ponderizing” this week, Isaiah 53:3-5:

He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief: and we hid as it were our faces from him; he was despised, and we esteemed him not.
 “Surely he hath borne our griefs, and carried our sorrows: yet we did esteem him stricken, smitten of God, and afflicted.
 “But he was wounded for our transgressions, he was bruised for our iniquities: the chastisement of our peace was upon him; and with his stripes we are healed.”

Focus on the final verse. What does it mean “and with his stripes we are healed”?

How does that make you feel?

What are some ways we can show our gratitude and love for all that our Savior has done for us?

Encourage family members to ponderize Isaiah 53:3-5, especially vs 5, and to seek and carry out ways to show Heavenly Father and Jesus their gratitude for the atonement and resurrection. 

End with testimonies.


As an activity, color Easter Eggs. Make a list of people (single sisters and elderly in our ward) to share our eggs with and set aside some times to go visit them to give them their colored eggs.

Tuesday, March 15, 2016

JOY!

For FHE last night, we talked about the scripture we are going to ponderize this week: 2 NE 2:25.

"Adam fell that men might be; and men are, that they might have joy."

After discussing what the scripture meant, we used the remaining time to talk about how we can choose to have joy and be more positive in life, even when things are not going the way we hope.  We referenced this New Era Q & A article about helping our friends to be more positive.  And I shared a story from the Friend about a little boy who set out to share joy with others.

Then we made our own list of things that can help us to have joy:

  • Family
  • Keep the Commandments
  • Be Grateful
  • Appreciate Nature
  • Smile
  • Be Nice
  • Animals
  • Read Scriptures
  • Pray
  • Remember Jesus and what He has done for us/how much He loves us.



Monday, March 7, 2016

Still Here!

A couple weeks ago, we did not have a regular Family Home Evening because we had a friend visiting from out of town and we met up to spend the evening with her.

Last week, we ponderized Isaiah 58:13-14.  Our Ward Conference was the day before and the message was on keeping the Sabbath day holy.  For FHE, we discussed how keeping the Sabbath day holy can help us and came up with ideas on how our family could be improve our Sabbath day.  Here are some of the ideas we had.  Some of these things could be done as individuals, some as a family.

  • Have homework completed before Sunday and don't do schoolwork on the Sabbath.
  • Work on Family History
  • Write Letters
  • Sing Hymns
  • Study Scriptures
  • Visit people who are lonely or sick.
  • Speak Kindly
  • Don't watch Football
  • Limit TV to approved programs (family movies, church programs, Disney movies, etc)
  • Study Church Lessons
We determined that if we do these things, we will experience:
  • More Peace
  • Love at Home
  • Less Stress
  • Better Organization
  • Help with our Problems
  • Personal Revelation


This week, Acadia is giving our FHE lesson and it will be on 1 Samuel 16:7.